- emphasizes the blessings of God
- acknowledges the difficulties and suffering of the church
- commends the church's faithful endurance through hardship
- reminds the people of the church of Paul's own deep love and concern for them
- commends the church for its service
- exhorts the church to be confident in the goodness and sovereignty of God
I don't write letters (or e-mails) to people in the church that express such depth of affection and concern. Heck, I don't often talk to my wife like that---see Week Eight! It's not that I don't love people in the church. I do love and admire many people in the church. I just don't feel comfortable expressing it, and, as a result, I most often just keep my feelings to myself. To the extent that my discomfort is a by-product of my own junk, I need to get over it. To the extent that I'm a reflection of our culture, I think our culture is wrong. This is one area in which the church is called to be counter-cultural. "By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." John 13:35.
This week was about me encouraging others on a daily basis and about me getting out of my comfort zone and expressing how I feel. During the week, I was struck by two things. First, once I made the commitment to encourage others on a daily basis and entered each day with the expectation that God would nudge me to encourage others, it was amazing how many people I saw that needed a word of encouragement. Second, this is one of those commands that requires very little effort by us, but God can use our obedience in a powerful way.
UPDATE: My dad has returned home from the hospital and is doing very well compared to his condition just a few weeks ago. Thank you all very much for your prayers and encouragement. Buddy, my dad's dog, has also returned home. This was rather disappointing for my boys, who had grown very fond of Buddy. I think we may be getting a dog of our own in the not too distant future.
I know that, I for one, was encouraged by your encouragement. Thanks, Nathan!
ReplyDeleteI tend to be a task-oriented person and don't always take the time to tell someone how much I appreciate them. I really notice when others do, though; and I appreciate that gift to the Body of Christ. I know for some, especially, words of affirmation are a primary love language. So, it is very important for me to step outside my comfort zone and pay more attention to encouraging others in their walk. Thanks for the reminder!
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